I'm not answering for Phil, but unless times have changed drastically, you still have pastors in the COG, who for some reason, cannot be both a husband/father and a pastor.There are men, and I have known them, who could balance the two God given positions well. I have known some who tried but could not and I have known some that family came last. Church activity, meetings etc ALWAYS took precedence over his kids school activities. Those pastors felt they were failing Christ if they did not put the COG first in EVERY ASPECT of their lives.It is not only Pastors but I know church members kids TODAY who can't find a good thing to say about their dad because they were never allowed to be kids, attending church when the doors were open was the highest priority in the WORLD. Balance, BAlance and LOVE true love is needed. Some facts but mostly just my
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