I went to a church once where things seemed to start off pretty good. The pastor was a good teacher. But then, he started preaching about a lot of psychology. He said he was going to counseling himself.He had this sermon about making vows to your self like, I'll never be like my dad or whatever, and how this can effect your life later on. And he had everyone repeat a prayer where they were supposed to say they broke every vow. As I recalll, I did not repeat that.I thought, man, that's messed up. Praying a prayer saying you break your vows. He meant it in some other way, and those thoughts like, I never want to be a preacher when I grow up aren't really 'vows' anyway. But that sure did sound messed up.I believe I told him that we are supposed to keep our vows if they are real vows.And I don't see how it had much of anything to do with what the Bible teaches. It's like he took some really specific issue in his own life that he'd uncovered during a counseling session and tried to apply it to every else