I tried to pinpoint why I felt troubled about the removal of southern Civil War statues, monuments, names, and so forth. I mean, despite arguments to the contrary, I am satisfied that the key driver of the war was slavery, so why should I feel upset at the removal of monuments to those who fought on the side of the south?And yet I am....I think part of it might be some small degree of pride in our relatively outnumbered, outgunned armies holding their own against larger forces. But I have come to believe that the main reason is that the Civil War was a moment that DEFINED the South as a unique and other part of America. And because we know that the South is STILL different from the rest of the country in key ways, we hold on to these markers that, in some ways, represented the high water mark of the South.The War was what isolated us together...was what gave us the symbols that reflect the South...that bound us together not just geographically, but in emotional ways, too. And so we treasure them above what may be reasonable because they are really the ONLY iconography we have, as nothing has since replaced them.Then there is the feeling that everyone who whimpers over such things gets their way...and that creates defensiveness in us.