I met a governor at Costco once and introduced myself. She introduced me to her friend who was shopping with her, a woman with short spikey hair. It hadn't occured to me before this, but the governor did not seem all that feminine. She'd never married. My wife shook her hand and thanked her for not approving gay marriage. I felt a little uncomfortable with that comment, since I was wondering what the deal was with the 'friend.' Later, I heard rumors that the governor was that way, but wasn't open about it. I don't know for sure if it was true or not