SECRETS KEPT, SERMONS EDITED, RELATIONSHIPS ALTERED! Once you have been told or have heard of the secrets within your congregation, things change. When you are preparing your sermon those secrets come to mine and you think; oops I can’t go there. As a pastor there is an implied confidence, even if you have heard it second hand you cannot betray that confidence either. Yet some of those issues need to be addressed and it requires wisdom and discernment to be able to preach in a way that enlightens without exposing. To approach the pulpit as a priest or a shepherd is one thing to come as a prophet is another. A prophet may tear things up by the root, not giving thought to all the tender plants nearby that may be effected.
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That’s where the annointing comes in. The holy ghost is always right!
Sometimes the secret has nothing to do with issues in the church. One man single and in his late thirties got himself a very expensive toupee and he wanted to ” confess ” to me but wanted to make sure I never shared that information with anyone. Another was a lady in the church had a breast enhancement and she wanted very much for that to be kept private. The trouble with these things is that the word leaks out and sometimes the pastor gets blamed even though he never mentioned either issue.
Why would a lady be sharing with u about her breast?? TMI….