This has bothered me. Anyone losing a family member in the military deserves time, understanding and room to vent or grieve.The family member was killed serving his country. He nor the family should be treated as if he had committed strong arm robbery or running from the police. Family members of deployed military are paying in worry, fear, shopping alone, getting the kids to school and hundreds of other things. YES THEY NEED ROOM. LET IT BE for heaven's sake. NBF said it best! This lady was advised many hours in advance of the President's call. Then, coincidentally, her anti-white, commie Congresswoman just happens to be in the car when Trump calls? You think this type of set-up constitutes venting and grieving? Shame on her