I think you can break it down into a few categories.There are those who have the misguided notion that the scripture prevents women from making decisions that will affect other people.There are those who are very steeped in tradition and are unwilling to examine the basis of their traditions.There are those who do not want to lose control over the decision making process, whether motivated by fear or by ego.And I don't know if I should make a separate category for the folks like the guy from Soddy Daisy, but I suppose you could fit that cringe-worthiness into some of the above categories. If you read some of the comments on the nash16.com website, you will encounter a lot of glorious cringe-worthiness--the hysterical cries of Jezebel spirit, the sanctimonious and incoherent claim that women want to be helpmates rather than a helpmeets, etc. Where do you start a dialogue with those kinds of comments?Then you have the pervasiveness of patriarchal teaching. I noticed that one of the speakers for the General Assembly was Tony Evans. He seems to be popular with a couple of leaders in our church. I checked out part of one of his videos to see where he was coming from on the women issue. Not more than a few minutes into the particular video I chose, Evans was (erroneously, I believe) explaining that 1 Corinthians 11:3was a chain of command that God had set in order. When popular speakers keep drilling it in, it just reinforces it even if it wouldn't hold up to the scrutiny of study.Or maybe your question is rhetorical.